Nancy Mitford, A Biography: By Selina Hastings.
All the six Mitford sisters were fascinating and that fascination hasn’t waned over the years. When the sisters were young, they were rarely out of the newspapers.
Throughout their lives they attracted stories and scandal. One thing they all had in common was a sense of humour – and Nancy in particular.
But hers was a mildly cruel wit and this made her much-loved books even more successful. But what was Nancy really like?
The six sisters – they had one brother also- were born to Baron Redesdale and his wife in the early part of the twentieth century.
This means that their lives span a fascinating era which includes the Jazz Age, the Second World War and the Space Age. Nancy, the eldest, was born in 1904 and lived until 1973.
Of the sisters, three had long-lasting marriages but Nancy wasn’t one of them.
As a young woman, she was crazy about a chap named Hamish Erskine. The book you see here contains extracts from many of Nancy’s letters and her devotion to him is evident within them. So is her unhappiness when he told her he was marrying someone else.
Nancy was married when she was thirty. Her husband,Peter Rodd was not a stable character and the marriage soon was on the rocks. Once again, we are given insights into this from Nancy’s letters in which she pours out her heart – but often with a tinge of her characteristic humour.
However, she did fall madly in love. During the Second World War she met Gaston Palewski, a French colonel who was to become the love of her life. Their affair was intense to begin with but with the war and his commitments,they could not be together as much as Nancy (in particular) wanted. Again, her letters reflect this.
After the war, she moved permanently to Paris to be with him, but their meetings were not regular. Eventually,when he was posted abroad, they dwindled away to once a year. Nancy channeled her energies into her writing. Her books were largely autobiographical, but under the guise of being novels.
She did not write a proper autobiography but Selina Hastings has, in the words of one reviewer,’written a book that Nancy Mitford would have been proud to write herself’. This is largely thanks to having access to Nancy’s huge correspondence and Nancy’s own voice shines through the book as we move with her through times gone by and an era that was so different to our own – but endlessly fascinating.
November 19, 2016
Mitford then began her first serious non-fiction work, a biography of Madame de Pompadour . The general view of the critics, when the book was published in March 1954, was that it was “marvellous entertainment, if hardly to be taken as history”.
July 1, 2015
But Hamish Erskine didn’t marry! He was GAY!
July 1, 2015
Absolutely he was gay. But she was determined to marry him. He valued his friendship with Nancy but knew that marriage was impossible so he told her that he was marrying someone else, a girl called Katherine Dunn. (His sister was engaged to her brother).
Nancy wrote to him immediately after he told her by telephone and I believe that letter is in the above book. Somehow though, I think that telling her the truth about why he couldn’t marry her might have been kinder as she wrote ‘it is a hard thing for me to bear that you should prefer her to me.’
She announced her engagement to Peter Rodd three weeks later.